#these are uh... these are romantic orientations btw

[kalaidope]

Broppy hcs for 🌈pride✨

[crimsonsartpage]

Hello chat

Hi hello first post time I am here to uh send art n shit, basic about me time + the type of stuff u might see here :D Only click on this if you want to see it, there's a lot

So time for a quick Bio then :3

Name: Crimson, Code, or Encoded Age: Minor(Dni if you are an adult please btw ^^) Pronouns: They/It Gender and Sexual/Romantic/etc. orientation: Nonbinary, Aroace, Biaesthetic That's about it if u want more there might be more on my carrd, idk I haven't checked it in forever

Time for me to list a buncha interests :D

First thing first I love the Magnus archives so much it is so good I love it rahh Michael Shelley is my adopted son, Michael Distortion is my transition goals and bestie, Jon I am going to murder you stop making bad decisions, speaking of murder hi Elias thank you for killing the avatar of the whore /ref uh homophobic vase(on the first day of pride month? thats wild....... /j) Also kinda recently briefly had a Dandy's world obsession, not so much anymore, prob won't play it with u or anything, but can talk abt it for a bit I also like will wood, chonny jash, miracle musical(I love miracle musical sm its prob my interest I've had for the longest time), tally hall, that handsome devil, etc. etc. Other things I've had interests in/am interested in include: - Pressure (died out, still listen to the ost) - Ultrakill (died out, still listen to the ost tho) - Undertale and Deltarune(Deltarune tomorrow.... ok but fr ty Nintendo direct cant wait for chapters 3 and 4) - Learning about random people's ocs(seriously rant to me abt ur OCs I will listen I am interested please) - Glitch productions(especially murder drones and gaslight district oh my god I love those sm also super excited for Knights of Guinevere) - Hazbin/Helluva (died out) - Gravity Falls (died out mostly) - Owl house (still pretty interested in it I like toh a lot sighh why'd it get cancelledddd I'm still mad abt that its been multiple years but still) - Fnaf (died out took way too long like istg that was most of my middle school experience only died out fully after I started highschool ;-;) - Studio Investigrave (died out mostly) - Uh like half of the indie animation things I've seen on yt(please give me more indie animations to look at :( ) thats abt all I can think of feel free to ask if I've gotten interested in any other media :3

Oh ya also I'm an artist, general tws for looking at my art: - Blood/gore(will generally provide a TW and make it so you actively have to click past it to look) - Body Horror(primarily lots of eyes, and those mouths where the teeth are just kinda straight vertical lines and its always a smile love that stuff one of my OCs has those things I'll try, but I might not give a TW every time, sorry) - Scars(will not provide a TW if they're healed over) - Substance abuse(mainly legal substances like alcohol, will provide a TW + make it so u can't see it unless u choose to) - Criminal activity(will provide a TW + make it so u can't see it unless u choose to) - Depressing themes(will provide a TW + make it so u can't see it unless u choose to) - Death(will provide a TW + make it so u can't see it unless u choose to) - Weapons/violence/etc.(will provide a TW + make it so u can't see it unless u choose to) - Bright/flashing colors(not super often, but will provide a CW + make it so u can't see it unless u choose to) Other stuff like that :3 tldr if it's something you can be triggered by and not super sexual, I might mention and/or draw it, please be careful Speaking of sexual things, I might make sex jokes from time to time, usually not super explicit, but they might be there I also swear, be aware

Oh yeah speaking of art, here's some of my art :D I uh tried to not send any triggering stuff here

Still rambling about art, while you're here, here's some TOS for interacting with me/my art, if you break these rules, you will probably be blocked and/or shadow banned - Do not use my characters or art for AI(If you see any of this, please ask them to take it down or report it) - Don't make suggestive jokes about my OCs; Can be excused for close friends(you know who you are/lhj) - Don't shit talk my interests, art, etc.; criticisms are A-Okay, encouraged in fact, just don't just be blatantly rude/mean about it :') - I reserve the right to ask you to stop anything I dislike/find uncomfortable

Also, one last thing, while this is my main blog, I also have a second one!! Be warned, I will be less consistent with tws, it will have a lot of random rambles, it's far more casual than this one, and I won't do asks on there; it does exist though if you're interested lol

[our-reality]

ok im so so so tired and physically cannot draw new art for them but RUBY AND JAVA MASTERPOST BABY!!!!!!!!! (for @smallartistocbracket)

uhhhh im actually not sure what im supposed 2 put here but wtv. uh

ig ill talk about ruby first

full name: ruby kitamura

age: 19

height: 5'8"

gender/pronouns: cis woman, she/her

orientation: panromantic asexual

race/ethnicity: asian, japanese

spark color: coral pink

personality: she's extremely friendly and bubbly, she loves talking to people and can make friends with pretty much anyone she meets. she's also particularly caring and patient, even to the point of self sacrifice. she especially prioritizes her relationships with her family and her girlfriend (who i'll talk about later) and she loves them all so much i cannot emphasize enough how freely she loves. she definitely perfers being close to people and it can come off as her being in your face all the time which. is somewhat true but she's very kind and respects boundaries when she needs to!!! she's also absolutely a romantic and she always sticks to what her heart tells her to do

relationships: uhhh she has a big ass family!!! she has 6 other siblings (ivyn, natsuo, rain, akira, paul, eve) and a mom who loves them all very much <3 she just has to work a lot in order to provide for them all but they make it work!!!!!!! mostly because ruby's like a second mom to all of them <3 uh she's also very good friends with python and swift. who are gods (ish)!!!!!!!!!! so that's pretty epic. she's a bit closer to python than swift since she more frequently trains under python but yeah :o) and then of course she's girlfriends with java!!! their relationship means everything to me

notable abilities: uh under my magic system she's an averager, which basically means she's born with a higher intelligence than most people!!! she's also trained to use a bo staff in combat and generally does extremely well with close quarters fighting that's epic

other: she has adhd cuz projecting and used to be a full time gifted AND sports kid whadda hell. she played tennis and volleyball and still knows how to play them pretty well!!! she has some trauma as well but we don't talk abt that ❤

and then java's next or smth

full name: java collins (also goes by aerith or cosmic sometimes)

age: 21

height: 6'2"

gender/pronouns: trans woman, she/her

orientation: demiromantic demisexual lesbian

race/ethnicity: white, ambiguously european

spark color: denim blue

personality: much more laid back and sheltered than ruby. she very rarely chooses to talk to new people, and if she does, it can take a while for her to really come out of her shell. when she does, though, she's very easy-going and sometimes sarcastic and absolutely loyal. no matter how much of a mess she may be she can and will stick by the people she trusts through thick and thin. she's also much more of a realist, choosing to analyze things from an objective point of view rather than sticking to any one ideal.

relationships: unlike ruby, she tends to prioritize her relationships with her friends over her family. and that's because her family life is kinda shit oops!!!!! won't go into full detail here but she actively resents her father and is not on good terms with her sisters so we're not going to worry about that. but uh instead we're gonna talk about her friends WOOOOO!! she's also friends with afformentioned gods python and swift, except this time she's much closer to swift and lowkey doesn't like python for a while lol </3 but she's also got her best friend from teenhood c+ and tumblr mutual requiem that she goes through weird ass shit with that's awesome (c+ and ruby also know each other btw). and finally like i've said there's her girlfriend ruby and they are so so so madly in love and they make each other better and oughfjdkelah(×[#&=(÷;

notable abilities: she's an averager just like ruby, but she has a bow and arrow as her signature weapon (get it. bo staff. bow and arrow. this was intentional). and as you might've guessed she's more so a long distance fighter which mean that they cover each others weaknesses that's so awesome

other: she's autistic which is also me projecting and also means ADHD AUTISM SOLIDARITY BABY!!!!!!! she's also an artist on tumblr and like. an influential one at that what the hell. she collects art supplies and is a scary jokes + idkhow fan and she also has trauma go figure (if you decide to follow me. which you totally should cuz im sexy like that. all my ocs have issues LMAO)

AND IF I NEED TO ADD ANYTHING MORE I WILL!!!! THIS IS A SKELETON OF A MASTERPOST BUT HOPEFULLY THAT'S NOT AN ISSUE LOL okay bye

[justice4sasuke]

See, I don’t understand that weak and infantilising argument. “Sasuke is too mentally ill to be gay”? It’s like gay ppl can’t be mentally ill? Or we don’t know “true” sexuality or romance because we’re “damaged”? Uh, need I go on, on why that’s a weird sentiment I see in fandom a lot and it should stop? idc about Sasuke’s orientation like that and this isn’t a personal attack on you btw, but it’s oddly ableist and homophobic to say stuff like that.

I see what you're saying and you're right.

The thing is Sasuke shows no romantic or sexual interest in anyone throughout the entire series (until randomly at the end when suddenly he likes Sakura I guess even after he dragged her through the dirt a few chapters before) so I should just say for all intents and purposes Sasuke is aroace.

But at the same time I don't think Sasuke felt he was able to pursue romance instead of being single-mindedly focused on killing Itachi and then destroying the Leaf and then revolution. So like the waters are very murky in that regard, would Sasuke have romantic interests if he wasn't traumatized like he was which led to him having a very narrow scope on how he navigates through the world. This kind of goes back to my "he has a personality it's just covered in trauma" thing, like Sasuke doesn't have any likes, dislikes or hobbies like he said, because of the path he was inadvertently set on he doesn't really have time for anything that isn't pursing his singular goal.

That's how I should have worded it in the first place, I should have been detailed like this in the first ask instead of being flippant I'm sorry. I'll try to be more thoughtful in responses talking about trauma from now on.

I guess short answer though to the original ask is in my heart I want Sasuke to be queer because I'm a lesbian and gay agenda etc etc, but we all know everyone in the series was intended to be cishet.

[ookami-tsun]

Hi there, I see the requests are open and I would like to give it a try. I never done something like this before so but I always wanted to to it! So, *ehem*.

So uh, I would love to hear a match up with a male genshin character.

I'm a really calm, friendly and understanding person with a lot of patience. I'm more a listener than a talker because I want to understand the person who is talking to me more, so I can react correctly if something seems wrong. I'm also a quite observing person who likes watching from far away instead of Integrate into the action.

Also, I don't like to interact with people that much. Not because I'm shy, I love talking to people but only the one I like and trust the most. It's just sometimes so exhausting because people can be unbelievable loud and stressful.

Oh and I love to know a lot. I NEED to know a lot. If I don't get a answer or a solution to a problem, it's frustrating me so much! So I do whatever it takes to get an answer.

I don't know if this is necessarily but:

I love drawing and painting. People tell me I'm really talented but I'm very modest about it. I also like reading, listen to music (never underestimate jazz btw), I adore dogs with all my heart and I love to save money lol.

I hope that is alright for you and thanks a lot if you add this to your list!

(I love reading your stuff btw)

Konichiwa, this is Tsun~

I realised that this sound slightly more neutral than romantic, but if you consider Diluc personality, it takes time and more simple tiny details to gradually get him to get close with someone.

I have one whole project (which I am not sure how to start) to work on that is due next Monday, so I will be doing lesser requests this few days... (T_T)

For your matchup... I choose *drumrolls* Diluc

Since you are a calm, understanding person with tons of patience, that makes you tolerant to how grumpy and distant he is and his past made him hard to be approached. But with your trips to his mansion (business related reasons) that made it inevitable to meet each other and gradually get to understand each other. Diluc secretly admires how you are still willing to approach him when his attitude made many others avoid him

As you are a very observant person who watches whenever situations happened made Diluc regard you highly as sometimes you can point out tiny details that he himself missed out.

When you first visited his mansion, you felt uncomfortable as you have to talk to strangers. It is such a pain to talk to people that you are not close to especially when they start to get loud and excited (acting familiar with you more than they should makes you feel uncomfortable). Since you avoid talking to people as much as you could, you got straight to the business instead of pleasant talks which is in line with what Diluc prefers and that gave him a good first impression of you which ended up making you the main person in charge of the business between both of your businesses (Lucky you are not made to talk to many people)

You are the type that will not be satisfies if they can't get an answer or solution to a problem, making you into a detailed-orientated person which is appreciated by Diluc he is a busy person and getting vague solutions will cause him busier

Most of your hobbies are indoor types which made it possible to stay beside Diluc which doing your own work. While Diluc does his paperwork in his office, you would sit on the couch and draw/ paint while listening to music. He would often take glances at you to check up on you as you do the same. There is no need do things together to accompany each other, the feeling of just staying in the same room can somethings feel smoothing to the soul more than doing same activity but one party doesn't want to.

You two never act like a couple in public which makes people doubt that you and Diluc are dating, when you two are actually showing indirect affection

[spiral-fracture]

aaaaa I wanna complain about being questioning but I don’t wanna do it here and I dont’ wanna do it on my “””””vent blog”””””” I just want to Not Be Questioning Anymore

[excitedlysuffering]

Can you do that headcanon collection thing for Kiba please? Thank you very much

I’m so sorry for the wait I’m really struggling with inspiration rn like I have all the words but I just can’t write?? Anyways I hope you like nonnie❤️✨

Kiba Headcanons Collection

What He Looks For In An S/O~

Someone who appreciates animals. Of course, dogs are his favorites, but he doesn’t hate animals at all, not even cats.

Someone wild who knows how to have a good time, just like Kiba. He won’t enjoy dating a square, just being honest.

He wants a woman who’s not afraid to stand on her own two; the Inuzuka clan is primarily a matriarchy, meaning he’s used to strong-willed women.

He’s going to need an emotionally open person, he pretty much wears his heart out on his sleeve, so Kiba needs someone who can articulate their feelings.

He’s a possessive person, it’s in his nature, so a patient s/o would suit him best.

The saying ‘she’s beauty, she’s grace, she’ll kick you in the face’ is literally everything he’d ever want.

I can see him with someone smaller than him just because he has a thing for size differences.

He loves confidence and would swoon if his s/o took charge sometimes, in daily life, and in the bedroom.

Kiba is big on physical affection, so someone with the same love for touch is preferable.

Kiba leaves constant hickeys and you can’t convince me otherwise, so they’d best be used to it.

Akamaru has to like you. Period.

Relationship With Kiba Stuff~

This boy loves HARD, like with his whole heart, and he’s not afraid to show it either.

He’ll love taking you out on adventurous outdoorsy dates, usually, Akamaru will come with but every once in a while it might be the two of you.

He likes games and challenges. I could definitely see him turning a treasure hunt into a date.

He actually loves going on missions with you (there’s nothing sexier than watching his girl kick ass) and will let you do your thing without unnecessary worrying.

He’s not huge on giving gifts all the time, but he does enjoy treating you to nice places and dates.

He has the nose of a dog. So he can smell your… week before you even know it’s there.

“Hey, (Y/N)... I, uh, thought you could use this!” *shoves snacks, a heating pad, ice cream, and a teddy bear in your arms*

He’s not the greatest at picking up on moods, but once he figures it out he’ll be all over it.

You’re probably good friends with Hana and Tsume, which Kiba appreciates, even though he hates sharing you.

He definitely takes you to see the dogs and the puppies, especially when one is just born.

He’s unashamedly sensitive like just love him, please.

How To Annoy/Lose Him~

First of all, if Akamaru and you don’t get along. Akamaru was there from birth so, you know, if he doesn’t like you, sorry hun.

It’s one thing to be appropriately possessive, like not letting girls walk all over you to your man, but he does have female friends and he does not want to be caged.

If you’re not family-oriented. The Inuzuka clan is very much a pack family and everyone is very close.

Don’t ignore him or neglect him, he will be hurt.

Kiba enjoys playful banter, but he also knows where the line is and he expects you to as well

Being a genuinely rude person. Okay, yes, Kiba has anger management issues, but he’s not a mean person.

Not having compassion/empathy for others. It’ll disturb him, I promise.

Arrogance and vanity. Kiba knows he’s the shit alright, but he’s not a total jerk about it, and he expects the same from you.

Soft Kiba Things~

He’s actually pretty good at remembering things like important dates (thanks to his trusty calendar) so you’ll be hard-pressed to find him forgetting things like birthdays or anniversaries.

He has a dog plush toy that he will give to you when he’s off on missions. But when you’re off on missions, he’ll use your pillow since it smells like you.

He’s a huge cuddler and the position doesn’t matter as long as he’s close to you. (makes an adorable little spoon btw)

He definitely has a secret photo album/box full of candids, drawings from Sai, and little things that reminded him of you (i.e. a pretty flower, a quote, or a trinket) but he’d rather die than let it be found, it would ruin his bad-boy persona.

I feel like Kiba would like to feed you every once in a while. Like not in a weird, fetish way (iykyk) but a romantic thing that was rare?

He would love to train with you, like wow that’s my s/o and they’re so strong?

Kiba genuinely melts inside when he sees you and Akamaru interact. Like that’s his life long companion and the love of his life being friends? Woah.

He’s touch starved but for no reason at all except for the fact that he loves physical affection so please give him all the cuddles.

Random Kiba Facts~

His love languages are physical touch/quality time.

He’s not scared of thunderstorms in a traditional way, but just like dogs, the sounds and lightning are overstimulating and he’ll usually spend it with ear canceling headphones and in the basement.

Since everyone has a unique natural smell (he really liked yours) he’ll most likely complain if you wear heavily scented perfumes/body wash.

He knows he’s not naturally responsible so he creates detailed lists and schedules for himself.

Kiba has a perfectly working bed, but he always ended up on the floor so that’s where he sleeps now.

Contrary to popular belief, he likes to go as vampires for Halloween (he says he’s a werewolf 364 days of the year let him have one day) because of his fangs and ‘drop-dead beauty’ (his words).

He radiates heat like a furnace but somehow still finds a way to be cold at night?

Kiba has a good singing voice. It’s deep and melodious and no one can tell me differently.

He’s alright at regular cooking but amazing at gathering spices because he can smell the combinations and stuff so he’ll help you season things, but that’s about it.

He’s a huge overthinker please help him

Little Things~

Favorite:

Place to kiss: The space where your neck meets your shoulder, something about it just really riles him up.

Way to hug: He loves lifting you up so your legs wrap around his waist. He loves holding you and being able to kiss your neck.

Thing to do with you: He loves hiking or going on long walks, especially at sunset or sunrise.

Cuddle position: He actually loves to lay on your chest and listen to your heartbeat with your arms wrapped around him.

Type of date: Basically anything that includes physical activity or adventure.

This or That:

More of a spring person, a lot of new puppies are born then and the weather is finally nice again.

Morning kind of guy, he loves to go go go and his activities usually require daylight.

He likes to cook, even if he’s not that good at it. He’ll enjoy helping you in the kitchen.

Rarely reads for any reason. Don’t read to him either, he’ll be super bored.

Conflict Happenings~

The two of you will probably have more stupid ‘I’m right, you’re wrong’ type arguments, more than real fights tbh.

That is not to say that Kiba won’t participate in a fight. Cause he will.

The both of you are probably screaming so loudly no one knows what anyone is saying it’s just loud.

You getting mad will turn him on tbh (and vice versa too tbh)

Depending on how bad the fight is, he might just start making out with you or yell at you more for distracting him with your hotness.

You’ll be hard-pressed to make him back down during a fight if he’s truly heated, so pick your battles wisely hun.

He really can be sensitive, especially since he will value your opinion so much, so be careful with your words.

In general, he’s not really focused on hurting your feelings, more on winning the argument.

Will probably storm off for a while to calm down, but he is always back before the day is over.

The two of you are used to having fights like that, so a big cuddle session is in order when it’s all said and done.

Modern Kiba~

He’s definitely the sexy bad boy you couldn’t bring home to mother and he both owns and rocks his persona.

He secretly (not so secretly) likes dogs more than his peers, even if he is usually very social.

He’s the one who always manages to bring alcohol to the parties.

I could see him on a football or soccer team, and being really good too.

He’s charismatic, funny, good looking, street smart, and has all the It Man™ qualities and I know he’s the captain/president of some club or team.

He’s not naturally super smart but his mother ingrained good habits into him so he’s generally pretty good at studying, probably still has a tutor though.

He’s a very subtle F-boy, has a few girls he does regularly that don’t know about each other and that’s that.

He probably has a part-time job at a shelter, since he’s not big on working.

Always at parties and is always the center of attention. Everyone loves him.

The red fangs were a result of him being absolutely hammered yet everyone seemed to find them incredibly hot.

He’s a loyal friend, but he also won’t hesitate to cut you off if you wrong him (he liked his dog better anyway)

He’s so messy it’s up to his roommate to keep him in shape, and thankfully it’s Shino, who somehow manages to keep it a decently tidy living space.

Has the worst hangovers ever but still never learns??

He’s the wild friend that spices up everyone’s life and knows that you need his craziness.

Bite me, Kiba, plz

[kakitysax]

Random question: are you on the ace/aro spectrum as well? (If you don't wanna answer that's totally fine btw)

YES YES YES FINALLY SOMEONE ASK ED ME Hhhdh *sobes*

This is gonna be so long you don’t have to read all of it (update I was right it is hella long I am sorry)

Okay so uh I am ace like hella fucking ace

But what that means for me is my reproduce instinct like skipped a step so like...I don’t want to sex because hehe feel good or whatever but I DO want to combine my genetic material with the genetic material of a Worthy and Chosen Mate and produce HIGH quality offspring and if I gotta sex to do that then so be it. But also not too many children because regardless of whether or not I end up with someone I CAN make kids with (or anyone at all) I plan to adopt.

I have an aesthetic appreciation of the human body, and experience sensual attraction. But it is NOT the same as sexual attraction. The difference is that one time someone flashed me as a joke and I started having an anxiety attack, and another time someone showed me a piercing in a somewhat private location and it was really pretty. That dichotomy (um double standard for ppl who don’t know what dichotomy means) is EVERYWHERE. Person is doing sports in tight shorts? Flawless. Beautiful. The human form is breathtaking. Person is gyrating their hips in tight shorts with a lewd expression? Instant panic. Gouge my eyes out. What I mean by sensual attraction is when I love someone I want to cuddle them and rub my face against their neck and have their hands in my hair.

I am DEFINITELY on the aro spectrum but I don’t know where. Uh I definitely want to be someone’s chivalric lady knight and hold doors and give flowers and lavish love and care, but I also want to feel protected. But at the same time those are all like...ideals that never quite seem to REACH in reality, you know what I mean? Like I read hurt/comfort and I’m like “I’m so lonely” but then it happens to me irl and I’m like “VULNEROLI VULNEROLI GET ME THE FUCK-OUTTA-HERE-OLI”

So I’m desperately lonely but also loathe the reality of human connection. And also I don’t know how to differentiate between romantic and queerplatonic attraction.

I do get “crushes” on people, but I don’t know if I can call it a crush because I tried to date one of them and it was awful. It’s strange because I DID really like them, but I think it was more like affection? Or admiration of their qualities? I couldn’t get close to them. And I have a couple of people who I still feel that way about, but I realized since THAT whole fiasco that I don’t actually want to date them.

I am in love right now. I can’t tell if it’s queerplatonic or romantic, but either way it only happened because we developed a close bond beforehand. I do know it’s love, though. I would act on it, but I only realized because of the jealousy that ensued when they started dating someone else. I want to be their life buddy and get bunk beds and make them feel held, and also bitch and bicker constantly. Ugh I’m so in love. But they’re taken.

Also I cannot EVEN tell my orientation. I find all KINDS of people aesthetically pleasing, but I am more physically and emotionally comfortable with AFAB people, and am more likely to experience sensual attraction for them. However, most of my romantic/long-term-relationship fantasies feature cis men, despite the fact that I am afraid of them. I was pretty platonically attracted to a trans man for a while, but I interact with so few not-cis people (besides me) irl that I can’t give a definitive answer about it. The general rule is that I am much more comfortable GIVING affection, protection, and validation to AMAB, and RECIEVING affection, protection, and validation from AFAB. Couldn’t tell you why. And if you’re upset that it’s by AGAB and not by gender? Me too, bro. I promise I think of trans people as their respective gender, I know what it’s like to not have people respect your identity, but when it comes to physical and emotional intimacy you’d have to either pass REALLY really well or be really really close to me already in order to turn off this response in my brain. I am very sorry. It is pure instinct and fear response. I didn’t decide to feel this way and I’d change it if I could.

I am not SEXUALLY attracted to anyone (because I’m ace lmao) but would be willing to have a committed sexual relationship with someone of the opposite AGAB for the purpose of making children. The only way I could be convinced to try it with more than one person would be if Mate OG straight fucking died. I might end up in a committed relationship with someone of the same AGAB, but it would never be sexual.

So uh

That’s what’s going on.

It’s kind of moot though because first of all I can’t comprehend how someone would find my personality appealing and secondly?

Uhm I have hitherto only been able to develop close relationships and real love with and for people I can connect with intellectually

And this is going to sound so so bad and mean and awful but

I um don’t really know a lot of those...

[iamdeltas]

X, T and K?

X - top 5-10 characters who are yoUR PRECIOUS BABIES AND YOU WILL DIE DEFENDING THEM This depends a lot on what I’m focused on at the moment (also, not all my faves count. Generally if I feel like a fave character has enough fans to defend them or whatever, I’m not gonna feel like I need to defend them. For instance, Elsa. Does Elsa have her haters? Sure. But she’s also crazy popular, so who cares if a few people hate her? That’s why she’s not on this list, even if I do like her.) but here goes, not in order tbh, just off the top of my head: Kamala Khan, always my girl, I adore her so much and I saw a post one day talking shit about her and I wanted to throttle OP. Anyway. Kamala is the best. I cannot wait for her MCU debut. Cassandra, from Tangled: the Series. I adored Cass right from the start, and of course, right from the start, I saw people shitting on her for, IDK, daring to *gasp* not like Eugene, I guess? Wow. So yeah, I’ll die defending Cass, she’s the best, even if she made some bad choices in s3 but hey. Who hasn’t stolen an ancient powerful artifact and gotten manipulated by a demonic Eldritch being, amirite? Della Duck, from Ducktales. I adore Della, she’s such an interesting and complex character who has made her fair share of mistakes but is also trying her best. The whole discourse post-”Timephoon” really showed me that she’s a character I’d die defending as well because holy shit were people shitting all over her for... daring to ground Louie, her son, for literally causing a spacetime disaster because he wanted to make money. Sigh. Anyway. I adore Della. Anna of Arendelle, from Frozen. Oh, Anna. So many people just flat out ignore you in favor of your sister, which is so unfair. Anna is wonderful and determined and optimistic and honestly such a badass? Like that (sadly deleted) scene said, her love could hold up the world. (Fun fact, part of the reason I desperately wanted my brain to get off the Frozen traintrack it was, ah, frozen on from June 2019 to January 2020 was because it resulted in me fixating on how much people flat out do not care about Anna, which wasn’t a fun time!) I am very glad she gets to be part of the bridge with Elsa but am sadly unsurprised that people continue to ignore that and just insist that it’s only Elsa who’s the Powerful, Wonderful, Most Amazing Fifth Spirit. Anna who? Granted, the movie could have emphasized that it’s Elsa and Anna who are the Fifth Spirit, together, but still. 

Alex Danvers, from Supergirl. Still my favorite character on the show! I don’t think she gets bashed as much as mostly just ignored? (I’d say poor Kara gets the brunt of the bashing. It’s very sad.) Unless Lena stans get confronted with the fact that their fave is doing some highly Unethical Things, then they start pointing to Alex for some reason and start saying, Yeah Well, Alex Works For A Shady Government Organization, So Who’s The *Real* Bad Guy Here? (Me: ....it’s still Lena, but go off, I guess.) I guess I just generally relate to her overwhelming Big Sister-ness and the high pressure she puts on herself because what a Mood, amirite? I feel that whole, anxiety that your parents will be disappointed in you because I feel that every day! I also adore how dedicated she is and how smart she is (something the fandom and the show often seem to ignore...) Connie Maheswaran, from Steven Universe. She’s the best! And she was totally the MVP of Steven Universe: Future, telling off all the Gems for making Steven’s problems about them because that was the last thing Steven needed! She’s practical and smart but at the same time so adventurous and brave and willing to stand up to protect the Earth! It’s very admirable. Steven Universe, from... you know. I’ve always liked Steven but I think Future gave me a greater appreciation for this kid. This poor kid has had to grow up so fast and basically play therapist for his Gem moms as well as for Gems who literally tried to kill him multiple times. His compassion is so admirable but wow did it result in him putting himself last! I have a soft spot for these types of characters, the characters who care so much about other people that they forget to care about themselves. (Alex Danvers is in this category also.) I know some people got mad about his downward spiral in Future, but honestly the complaints just strike me as being mad that Steven dares to have his own problems as opposed to being the Happy Boy Therapist Who Fixes Everyone Else’s Problems And Has Zero Problems Of His Own. Martha Jones, from Doctor Who. Oh, Martha Jones, you’re a star. I had a group of college friends who I watched Doctor Who with back in the day, and they hated Martha. (Most notable exchange: one of said friends saying that she thought Martha was just “too smart” to be relatable. Said friend was a physics major.) I hope the Martha hate has cooled down now because Martha always deserves so much appreciation. She had to put up with so much in s3 (incidentally, I think about s3 sometimes and I wonder why the fuck 10 is my favorite Doctor. Honestly, he’s such a dick in s3. Martha Deserved Better.), and I’m so glad she was able to be one of the few companions in NuWho with a nontraumatic exit. I hope she’s living her best life, wherever she might be now. Ninth Doctor, from Doctor Who. Gosh I love Nine. Those same college friends who hated Martha also told me to skip s1, and I’m very glad I did not listen to them. I’ve always liked Jerks with Hearts of Gold, and Nine definitely is that! I just adore how while he had such a gruff and battle-scarred demeanor, he was so sweet and genuinely kind. He’s a puppy in a leather jacket! And not only can he be genuinely soft and sweet, but he’s also just so silly sometimes? Absolutely not what you’d expect from his general appearance but he can be quite a goofball! I love that for him! And while I may not like Doctor/Rose as a ship (honestly I just don’t tend to like Doctor/companion ships at all), his relationship with Rose was so sweet. I also just enjoy that, underneath all the weariness and the surface-level cynicism, he is actually very optimistic.  Twelfth Doctor, honestly, same deal as Nine. I’m very annoyed with people who dismiss him as being the Grumpy Doctor because he’s just so genuinely kind and compassionate? He might genuinely be one of the most compassionate Doctors I’ve ever seen. He even extends kindness to his worst enemies. There’s something really beautiful about that. Being kind, even when it might ultimately backfire on you and might not even work, because why not try? He’s just a punk rock grandpa trying his best, how can you hate that? He’s got some sick guitaring skills btw. He should join a band. (I know Peter Capaldi is in a band, so that just makes me want 12 to be in a band even more.) Sometimes I think there should be a band in the Whoniverse made up of some of the Doctor’s regens but then I get stuck on who’d be in it besides 12. Maybe 2 can be in it, with his weird flute thing. Anyway. His relationship with Clara was great (mostly because of how destructive and codependent it was lmao) but I just genuinely adore his connection with Bill. I’m always here for found family, and Bill being 12′s Earth granddaughter just warms my heart so much! Thirteenth Doctor, but actually the opposite deal of Nine and Twelve. I once saw a post saying that most Doctors can be split into one of two categories: grump with a heart of gold or charming goofball with a dark side. And, despite the two characters I just listed being in the former category, I think I tend to prefer the latter? Mostly because I see plenty of Jerks With Hearts of Gold but I feel like I don’t see as many heroic charming goofballs with a dark side. Anyway, that’s absolutely what 13 is, and I appreciate the layers that she has and am constantly annoyed at people who only see her surface level cheeriness and think that’s all there is to her. I really love it when characters Aren’t What They Seem and 13 exemplifies that. To borrow a phrase from a post I saw a very long time ago, 13 is so facile. She’s so physical, taking up so much space and constantly moving, but is so touch-averse. She talks so much and is very friendly, but is incredibly emotionally constipated and keeps even her so-called best friends at an arms length. She talks a lot about hope and compassion, but boy can she be hella violent and feral! Love That For Her. T - Do you have any hard and fast headcanons that you will die defending, about anything at all (gender identity, sexual or romantic orientation, extended family, sexual preferences like top/bottom/switch, relationship with poetry, seriously anything) Oh absolutely. Off the top of my head: Cassandra is a lesbian. And that’s that on that. 13 is touch-averse! (Also stop yelling that she needs a hug! She doesn’t want one! It’s okay to not want hugs, that’s not a crime!) Alex can cook. Cooking isn’t even that hard?  K -Say something nice about someone in any of your fandoms Ooh, this is hard cuz there are a lot of people in any of my fandoms that I feel like I can say nice things about! Let’s go with Supergirl since I’ve been neglecting that fandom a lot. Uh. I adore @wizardofahz ‘s fics about the Superfam! I’m always craving more gen fic and she delivers! I love her characterizations of everyone, especially her characterizations of Alex and Kara. 

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HC MEME  ✹  romance

Tagged by: N/A I saw this and wanted to talk about this loser’s heart again Tagging: N/A

Name: Pit Nickname: Pitty, Pitty-pat, angelface, various others, normally used as insults Gender: Male Romantic orientation: Biromantic, with a reasonably strong female lean. Preferred pet names: You think he’s picky?? You think he’ll choose one?? Give him those soft tinglies and remind him he’s actually lucky enough to be in a relationship with someone who loves him back and you can call him whatever you want. Relationship status: Single. Very single. He’s a bullied dork with self-esteem issues, so Favorite canon / fandom ship: Uh, I’m assuming this is restricted to within canon - so Pit x Viridi. It needs development, they are not ready to date yet (what with Viridi still being a jerk and also a human-hater/murderer)... but there’s some real potential. Favorite crossover ship: HGH. THERE ARE SO MANY REALLY, REALLY GOOD SHIPS FOR HIM YOU GUYS DON’T UNDERSTAND. BUT to step away from the obvious Smash ships (Zelda and Samus are my faves for him btw)... I briefly got into him x Neptune HyperdimensionNeptunia and I still think there’s a lot of potential there. She has the power to tease the everloving heck out of him while also being very loving and playful and supportive and he’d get to be with a Goddess who also happens to be really sociable and generous and whose teasing never goes too far and MAN i miss neptunia blogs sometimes Opinion on true love: Pit totally believes in it! Now, he’s yet to reach the point he’s gotten to feel it so strong as to call it true (he crushes way too easily to get THAT far short of someone liking him back first), but being the kind of angel he is, he’s a very optimistic believer in love and he’s rooting for anyone lucky enough to find it. Opinion on love at first sight: Oh, don’t ask him about this - he gets all crushy fast enough it may as well be at first sight. He hasn’t honestly thought about it too deeply - his thoughts on love are really a bit too simple to take a stance on different kinds of it short of falling into it.

How ‘romantic’ are they?: His heart is romantic - even if he stumbles when it comes to actually acting on those romantic feelings. Once in a relationship, he’ll have his lover on his mind so often it’s distracting, and he’ll be thinking how much he wants to try holding hands, or cuddling, or maybe even kissing??? But he won’t know how to take action on any of it so either his partner helps or he just Dies. Ideal physical traits: He falls for prettiness so fast. Beautiful eyes, flowing hair, pretty voice, a lovely smile... he’s so weak. Princesses tend get him bad. Ideal personality traits: SHOW A GOOD HEART. Pit’s insanely open-minded, and patient enough in the long term to be willing to see good in just about anyone when there is goodness to see. Granted, he’s not gonna hold out for people who are actively mean to him or Palutena, obviously, but he can handle some roughness around the edges if they start showing a softer core. Just be nice to some degree... and also, be someone sweet enough to validate him?? And not harshly make fun of him for his shortcomings??? He’s a puppy when it comes to support.

unattractive physical traits: He can adjust to a lot - but don’t be an actual Slob. Take a shower every now and then... or at least hop in a hot spring? unattractive personality traits: Vanity, selfishness, bloodlust and especially sadism. A good, caring heart is vital to properly winning Pit over.

ideal date: Oh he is NOT picky. Mainly because as long as his date is happy he’ll try and adjust to anything. As long as he can see a smile and there’s an assurance he’s not making a fool of himself, he’s satisfied. do they have a type?: Those who are particularly beautiful and friendly win him over fast. But he’s not super picky, a good heart is a really good way to win him over, even if not as quickly as being the whole package. preferred non-sexual intimacy: TOUCH. He’s unbelievably Soft and touch-starved. He wants to hold a hand, be leaned on, cuddle... k... kiss?? The romance stuff. commitment level: While a proper relationship holding out for a family falls onto the trickier side of the spectrum since no relationship will change the fact that his devotion to and protection of his goddess is what he considers the most important task he has, you can nonetheless expect that he is loyal and will hold the relationship as best he can. While his bleeding, polyamorous heart does keep him from losing feelings for anyone else, it doesn’t mean his heart itself will waver - if he’s in a relationship, that’s his relationship and he won’t consider breaking it without only the most noble and necessary of reasons. As far as potential marriage, though, or having a family... well, it’s possible, but wouldn’t be easy. His job does mean his time with his significant other would be sparing, and the fact divine blood would be born through him could complicate matters, too... but if they could handle that, then the thought of making it work would make him... really happy.

opinion of public affection: Even besides the understanding that overt public displays of affection makes others uncomfortable, the thought of being particularly romantic in public feels embarrassing. He hardly knows how to handle those sorts of actions when it’s just him and the other, trying to be lovey in public would make him feel all kinds of weird and fuzzy, and not of the same variety that comes with the warmth of affection in private.

past relationships?: NOPE. Pit was “born” very small and weak, and through being somewhat ostracized and overlooked throughout his angel-y life means doesn’t have very good social skills besides. And beyond even that, the Centurions of Skyworld are too simple, bulky, and unquestioning to form meaningful relationships with, even considering Palutena an option beyond passing feelings would be another can of worms entirely, and nearly everything else in the Pantheon either laughs at him or hates him. And I mean... angels aren’t really supposed to Romance anyways,

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#for some reason he gives me vibes of 'if miles edgeworth was a blue-eyed ginger and realized wearing cravats in the 21st century is stupid'

My Top Posts in 2022:

#5

"But if you crash the airship, then we're all going to die!" said Qrow.

"Lol," said Tyrian, "lmao."

57 notes - Posted August 8, 2022

#4

Happy Autism Acceptance Month! Where I am rn today is also World Autism Day! :D

To celebrate I made icons for some Ace Attorney characters that I hc to have autistic swag, since it's my current special interest. These aren't all of the characters I hc as autistic, there's too many to include in one post lol, but I picked some of my faves. Maybe I'll do more...

These icons are f2u btw!

Here you go, have fun y'all!

See the full post

85 notes - Posted April 2, 2022

#3

Translation: "You have made me question both my personal philosophy and my romantic orientation"

100 notes - Posted February 14, 2022

#2

It's not made clear how Manfred died but I think it'd be rly ironic if he died from lead poisoning due to having a bullet in his shoulder for 15 years. Like. He got that bullet in his shoulder and shot Gregory in the exact same event. It would be a well-deserved irony if the bullet killed him, don't you think?

122 notes - Posted April 9, 2022

My #1 post of 2022

I feel like Phoenix and Edgeworth would talk very nonchalantly about the absurd things that have happened to them and it drives everyone else bonkers

Apollo tries coming to work with a rly bad cold, and Phoenix attempts to talk him out of it. Phoenix finally says "Look, Apollo, at least take some Coldkiller X. Just, uh... make sure it's not poisoned when you do." And Apollo's like "WTH IS THAT SUPPOSED TO MEAN???"

Edgeworth is talking to a prosecutor going abroad and finds out that they're using iFly Airlines. "iFly?" he asks. "You should be careful on your flight. The last time I flew with them, I was framed for murder." He takes his tea and leaves the room while the other prosecutor is calling after him wanting to know the full story

Phoenix and Edgeworth are bickering like an old married couple (as per usual) and everyone around starts losing it when they bring up past experiences like that. It becomes a whole spectacle

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[lumelum]

hi i saw the lgbt ask post and 1, 5, and 13? :)

Thank you <3

1. What is your sexuality? What is your romantic orientation?

I'm bi !!

5. Who was the first LGBTQ person that you met?

It probably wasn't the first one but I remember overhearing a conversation in middle school with a bi girl who talked happily (and very loudly) about the girl she liked and all her friends were listening like she was the messie. I thought it was nice that her friends didn't find her disgusting for having crushes on girls (we became friends later during the year btw :') )

13. Who is your favorite LGBTQ+ movie character?

Uh I don't think I have one in particular. But the fact that the matrix is a metaphor for trans people makes the movie ten times better :')

[violetemerald]

Multi-Couples/Multi-Friendships - "Shout" (The Joy & Pain of My Queerplatonic Relationship) - WYA

Song is called “Shout” and is by Ross Copperman. This video was a NIGHTMARE to edit and render because idk, my software just KEPT crashing, GOSH it was trying to kill me I swear.

This was made for season 2, round 2 of GlowingAprilSky's "Who You Are" contest, this time themed around "The Relationship". (Round 1, “Breaking Point” I entered with a fanvideo tribute to embracing my asexuality & sex-aversion: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JqRr60lP444 ) The idea for this round was to show a person who helped really change who we are going forward in our life, basically. We participants in the contest were supposed to focus on capturing how they affected us, and how they shaped who we are.

YouTube descriptions have character limits but tumblr doesn’t so look under the “~~~~~” for more stuff than what I could fit in my YouTube description! I transcribed the voiceovers down there too.

Urban Dictionary begins defining Queerplatonic as "a relationship which is more intense and intimate than is considered common or normal for a 'friendship', but doesn't fit the traditional sexual-romantic couple model."

Every Queerplatonic Relationship (QPR) or set of Queerplatonic Partners (QPP) is different, chooses the terminology for different reasons, and that's really the beauty of it. This is a word to describe everything that was forgotten in mainstream culture's narrow boxes of "just friends" vs. "more than friends because of the romantic(&usually sexual too) component". Some sex-averse asexual people are in celibate romantic relationships. But others are in relationships that are "more complicated".

Robert* and I met at an asexual meetup group. I was 25, he was 26. He leaned gay and had no attraction towards women (I'm female) but we bonded quickly over having a lot in common, and became close friends. I wasn't sure if I was aromantic or panromantic or what, but I knew in the back of my mind I'd like a queerplatonic partner one day. We had a lot of fun, went to concerts together, played board games, watched TV/films, talked about families and pasts including the deep personal stuff, the traumas. He shared about his mental health with me.

(*name has been changed)

At some point along the way, we realized we wanted similar futures. We both had wanted, since long before we met each other, to become foster parents and later adoptive parents. We were both atheists & while I'd planned to wait to start looking for a qpp to be a co-parent for my future children until after I was no longer unemployed, maybe after I'd figured out where I'd live in the country and stuff, it just happened sooner than I was ready. It was too perfect, too good to pass up, and after we'd known each other for about 7 months we stopped just being super close friends. We became queerplatonic partners. We didn't do anything really different, but we had this shared plan to one day be committed life partners and to for now be logical "plus ones" to events where people might bring significant others, such as his siblings' weddings. We were "together".

He broke up with me the 1st time after we'd been QPPs for 4 months. I was really crushed but happy we were at least still friends. It took some time to get back into a groove. We weren't as close. He ended it because he wasn't sure anymore he wanted that future and because he'd been hoping to feel more romantic things for me with time but instead his feelings had remained platonic. He was super important to me, & he'd told me before we broke up that he was thinking of signing up to deploy (as a U.S. civilian contractor) to Afghanistan.

He ultimately did leave to go on the 6 month deployment about 2 weeks into me finally having a full time job, long after we'd broken up. But we started texting more, while he was over there. (Facebook messaging, actually.) Our friendship's closeness was rekindled. We each had lots of down time during workdays, and we got back together around 1 month into his deployment.

We talked about everything for the 5 months we were in a long distance relationship, shared our lives with each other, and were "together". I told him I looked forward to slow dancing with him one day, and ice skating, etc... we rekindled our plans to become non-biological parents....

Skipping over some details he broke up with me only days after we first saw each other in person for the first time in 6 months. He texted, said he "Couldn't do this anymore", and when I tried to ask why he said he got a call but we'd talk more the next day.

I had texted a little more after that, asking if our near future plans to do a suicide prevention walk together etc were definitely off (because last time we still did some things together as friends, I thought maybe it wouldn't be outside the realm of possibility).

He never texted back, never contacted me again. I feel kinda like I was ghosted, abandoned. He never explained why we suddenly after 2 years were just... nothing. This was 6 months ago.

This vid should hopefully capture a lot of that (& more?). (Btw: I purposely didn't show ANY kissing.)

~~~~~

Some of the details I skipped over were that while I was with him, I realized how “demisensual” I am, not demisexual, I’m 100% asexual, but rather the “Sensual” suffix - I do not crave touch at all in my relationships unless I have a strong emotional bond, but I looked forward to reuniting and hugging him for months, and I did and it was a glorious hug when he was back home.

I also started fantasizing about maybe marrying him, or thinking about legality of adopting together if we weren’t married and how that probably would be impractical... and how we would or wouldn’t queer the wedding, and do it secularly without religion because that’s important to us, and how I probably wouldn’t want to wear white and stuff... but I was scared to voice these fantasies too early and scare him away.

Also we gave each other gifts by mail even during those 5 months when we were long-distance, and over the course of our relationship before that too. That was a pretty good indicator of how close we’d gotten, he bought be an iPod, gave me a necklace I liked to wear, I picked out gifts for him really carefully for Christmas too, etc.

But how did this relationship change who I am or the course of my life/my future? I mean, because of Robert I realized it’s possible for me to fall in love, and it made my dream of finding a co-parent despite my orientation seem tangible, it gave me hope and optimism for a time, showed me how much joy I was capable. For a while there I had started basically thinking of him as my fiance, I felt that committed to him.

I could tell things weren't perfect, especially at the end, but I couldn't tell for sure where his mind was at. I was waiting till we were alone and in person together and it basically never came. I was a little worried about him & his mental state near the end, also just worried about us. The time we spent together when he first got back was mainly in groups with other friends though so we didn’t get privacy.

I kinda sorta saw it coming here and there. He seemed a little afraid to commit to me, and much more closeted than me about any of his non-straightness, him being gay-gray-asexual, the gay part was hard given his upbringing and the asexual part he acted like was more private but I... I am not private about this stuff. Lol see this video I just made. So that was part of why I wanted to include David/Keith from Six Feet Under and capture the complexities of internalized homophobia/wishing he was straight/”using me” to be able to say he had a “Girlfriend” as a good thing for his reputation in front of his straight guy friends/co-workers while I kinda felt like I was lying every time I might call him my boyfriend maybe to a co-worker. The whole thing was more complicated than I can really explain right now, but I wanted to try.

After he left me with no explanation of why he “can’t do this relationship anymore”, why we couldn’t even stay friends, with nothing more than answering my initial “Was it something I did??” with a “Not really”, uh... my heart was shattered and I was so angry and so heartbroken and... at first I was a little worried he might be struggling so much mentally that he’d be suicidal and I was checking to see that he still was “Active” on Facebook sometime that day so I’d, I guess be assured he was fine.

He showed me how much grief and sadness I really can feel over a breakup,  he affected how I think of so many little things with a twinge of sadness for 6 months now, he may not be the love of my life, but he will always be my first real love. He wasn’t my first boyfriend. But he was my first queerplatonic partner, the first person I fell in love with, and the first relationship I truly had to learn to mourn. He will always be “a” love of my life, in my life story I’ll never forget him. Those 2 years were so significant.

He also has made it really hard for me to forsee ever trusting that a person really means it when they tell me how much they’re looking forward to plans for the future, how committed they are, how much they care about me, etc, because of how suddenly he changed his stances on everything. He left me traumatized to just suddenly go from assuring me yes he wanted to spend Memorial Day in two weeks with me and sending me cards in the mail expressing how happy he was to see me again in person soon, and then the next day be breaking up with me and cutting off all contact whatsoever, ending our friendship and acquaintance entirely. It gave me whiplash. It made me doubt my instincts about other people, and I’m going to have to make an effort to not let him taint any future relationship, if I’m so lucky to one day have one. Which. I’m not holding my breath there...

Because yeah, even now, 6 months later, I am legitimately worried I will never be able to find anyone to co-parent adopted children with who wants a queerplatonic type kissing-free, sex-free relationship with me. I’m trying to think practically about possibly doing the parenting thing single. I just don’t know yet where my life will lead, and if I indeed do any single or joint-parenting thing, it’s still a few years off.

About this video, I wanted to include a mix of friendships and couples to capture how being queerplatonic is neither one nor the other. I’m not “shipping” all these friendships, at least not in the traditional sense. I’m embracing loving them for exactly what they are in canon as a representation of what queerplatonic level bonds can be!

The majority of the ships started as friends and then started kissing/dating, and may or may not have ended up together on the show, but they had this heart to them of deep friendship which helps me relate to them and pushed me to want to include them in this video. I had so many options and some of the ones I chose to include in the end surprised even myself.

Every single pairing in this video remained friends with each other, at the very least, by the end of the TV show, except for the two Parenthood ones and also I think Jake/Peyton never saw each other again. So that’s pretty good, either ending up together or at least being on friendly terms till the end for 18 out of 21 “Ships”. Even one of those two parenthood ones, Ryan & Amber, did end up being co-parents so they are still in each other’s lives, LOL!!

I almost included other model relationships I love on TV shows like Reid/Maeve (Criminal Minds) but so much of their relationship is about literal grief over a death and idk, this is just different. There were tons of choices of ships, more queerplatonic level partnerships in things I watch - remember http://luvtheheaven.tumblr.com/post/155333908172/list-of-queerplatonic-level-relationships-people and well, basically... I watch WAY too much TV. But I ultimately settled on these 21 to get to the heart of what I wanted to go for. I even included two couples I usually consider myself not to ship, Laurel/Oliver and Chloe/Clark. I was never rooting for either, and think Lauriver are much better as friends on Arrow and don’t believe their chemistry, but the way Oliver and Clark act towards Laurel and Chloe respectively really reminds me of some of the moments of unreciprocated feelings Robert seemed to have towards me at times, like he cared deeply but didn’t care as much as I did, etc etc.

Friendships With Fully Incompatible Sexual Orientations to really capture our Asexual and Aro-Spec type of attraction me and my qpp had for each other:

John/Sherlock (to me these are THE classic queerplatonic bond) (BBC Sherlock)

Wilson/House (based off Sherlock Holmes and John Watson, these two also have so much of that vibe) (House M.D.)

Mario/Angus (Code Black)

Scott/Stiles (Teen Wolf)

Neal/Mozzie (White Collar) - it’s important to me that I headcanon them as queerplatonic these days, they are such partners in their lives, it’s like... the commitment, gosh

Friendships that also had one-sided romance or were more complicated:

Caitlin/Cisco (The Flash) - their friendship isn’t more complicated at all, yet, not really. But they are more obviously shippable even if you’re not a slash shipper because they both are straight and female/male. Like they totally could end up together on the show and it wouldn’t surprise me if they go there eventually, who really knows. They have compatible sexual orientations is all. They are therefore “more likely” to find each other attractive than either me or my qpp were likely to have those feelings for each other. That’s why I’m putting them down here.

Brian/Voodoo - Voodoo is asexual, Brian is straight (Sirens)

Karma/Amy - Amy is queer, Karma... well people might debate if she’s straight or not... (Faking It)

Chloe/Clark (Smallville) - I don’t think them dating for about 1.5 episodes out of 10 full seasons and over 200 episodes counts to put them in the category below.

Regular ships/couples, who still had long periods of being “just friends” (before and/or as exes):

Bay/Emmett (Switched at Birth)

Toby/Spencer (Pretty Little Liars)

Jake/Peyton (One Tree Hill)

Laurel/Oliver (Arrow)

Joan/Adam (Joan of Arcadia)

Auggie/Annie (Covert Affairs)

David/Keith (Six Feet Under)

Ryan/Amber (Parenthood)

Jim/Pam (The Office)

Drew/Amy (Parenthood)

Matt/Julie (Friday Night Lights)

Rory/Jess (Gilmore Girls)

Voiceovers:

Toby: I feel like when we’re picturing our future together, we’re not looking at the same picture anymore.

Peyton: Do you want to get married?

Peyton: Giving your heart to somebody; that’s the scary part.

Karma: What do I have to do to get you to stay?

Joan: But you had my heart, Adam!

John (Bay’s father): You okay?

Claire, David’s sister: What do you see in him? Keith: He’s smart. He’s kind. He’s funny. When someone sees you as you really are, and wants to be with you, that’s powerful.

Wilson: I need a friend. I need you to tell me that you love me.

Stiles: What if... What if Scott’s my best friend now, but he’s not my best friend for life?

Ryan: I... I went back, and I re-enlisted.

Mozzie: 48 hours. I hope you’ll come with us. Neal: You’re giving me an ultimatum.

Pam: You were my best friend before you went to Stamford. I- I miss having fun with you.

Brian: You don’t want to have sex, and that’s fine with me. ‘Cause I’m not having sex right now either! I’m just happy being around you.

Amber: I’m so mad at you. I don’t understand why you would leave me.

Amy: I need some space. Drew: How much space? Amy: A lot.

Amy: Karma and I are more than just best friends, we’re soulmates. The normal rules don’t apply to us.

Mycroft (Sherlock’s brother): This is a private matter. Sherlock: John stays. Mycroft: This is family. Sherlock: That’s why he stays!!

Oliver: What’s this for? Laurel: Because you’re important to me.

Laurel: Ollie, I know that I am not the love of your life. But you will always be the love of mine.

Rory: You know, I have actually thought about this moment. What would Jess say to me if I ever saw him again? I mean he just took off, no word, so he couldn’t possibly have a good excuse for that!

Mozzie: And I find myself reminded that... unshared life... is not living.

Jess: You still going to Yale? Rory: It’s really close to here. Jess: 22.8 miles.

Rory: You ended up not coming to my graduation, and leaving again, so... That’s it I guess.

Bay: I waited for you, to come back to me, to talk through what had happened! And I gave you space, and then you... just... you disconnected without telling me! You moved on!

Keith: Fine, why don’t we cut our losses and call it quits right now! David: What? Keith: As long as you feel a need to keep our relationship a secret, David... you’re ashamed of it, man!

Brian: She met him on... one of those Asexual Message Boards.

House: Boy meets girl, boy says, “I’m asexual.” Girl says, “Yeah, me too.”

Wilson: I think they were happy.

Amber: You’ve been through so much, and I hate that you hurt.

Adam: I’m sorry. I didn’t mean to drag you through a whole ‘nother mess, you know?

Matt: You know, with everything that I was going through- Julie: Matt, we were together for almost four years!

Joan: I know.

Julie: I know everything about you!

Amber: I want to have kids with you, and I want to be your wife.

Auggie: This isn’t our song.

Julie: I hate you so much for leaving me. How could you do that to someone you love?

Amber: I loved him, and now he’s gone!

Stiles: Scott, just tell me how to fix this, alright? Please, just tell me. What do you want me to do!

Tami (Julie’s mom): There’s gonna be somebody else special for you. Julie: But it’s not Matt.

[ruvi-muffin]

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Hej Charlie!:’DD (jag ska göra den andra också när jag har tid, jag älskar att prata om mig själv lol ;P)

Name: Rut actually. But I don’t go by it online if I can help it since it’s weird to pronounce in any language but Swedish. Otherwise I’m Ruvi. Has a nice ring to it I think.

Nicknames: Cupcake, Muffin, Ruvi, Rutis and Rude

Zodiac Sign: libra *finger guns*

Height: 161cm last I checked. (That’s uh.. 5′3???)

Orientation: Orientation? As in sexually?? Romantically?? Frankly I have NO IDEA. I’m the epitome of confusion. I’m everything I guess. (I feel like I’m currently mostly into girls, though?) I guess I’m pan-flexible???????

Ethnicity: I mean I LOOK about as white as one can be. I’m of latino and baltic heritage.

Favourite Fruit: I like mangos.:3

Favourite Season: Autumn definitely!

Favourite Book: I don’t really have one. I haven’t read much since I was a kid. Couldn’t you ask for my favourite movie??XD (That’s The Holliday, btw. Guess what I’m watching right now.) I did really enjoy The Price of Salt when I read it, though. It’s one of the few books I’ve actually enjoyed in a long long while!

Favourite Flowers: Liliac.<3

Favourite Scent: Rain on pavement.

Favourite Animal: Dogs!:D

Coffee, Tea, or Hot Chocolate: Hmmm..... *looks over towards the cup of tea on the table* yeah uh I drink probably like five cups of tea a day. (I am a sucker for some well made hot chokolate with whipped cream tho).

Cat or Dog Person: Doggggg :’)))

Favourite Fictional Character: Would it be too predictable to say Lance?? I mean who would I be fooling? It’s Lance. I can’t remember the last time I was so utterly enamoured with a fictional character! I also really like the characters in Avatar. My favourites being Sokka, Toph and Zuko. (And Iroh obv.) (I also relate to Azula a lot).

Dream Trip: BACKPACKING THROUGH EUROPE!!:’DD (Take my hand, I’m ready to go any day!)

Blog Created: 2014 if I remember correctly? Honestly I probably don’t remember it correctly but I definitely had it back then. This was a side blog originally.

Number of Followers: 77 currently. .. No wait. Make that 78.XDD

What Do I Post About: Art and personal stuff on here. I otherwise have three side blogs because I’m just like that.XD

Do I Get Asks on a Regular Basis: Pff who? Me? Naah XD

Aesthetic: Ösohgiwgfigwefgwegk GAY ROADTRIP !!!!! Like for stories and movies I love romance with traveling and gay motorcyklists taking you away on adventures away from your rigid normal life and OUT IN THE WORLD. Makeouts under the stars. Cars and motorcykles. And just... hot mysterious punk rock ladies......... (guess I’m the repressed nerd type). 

But seriously, give me a Klance Gay Roadtrip AU and I will love you forever! I actually have wanted to write one myself for so long but I just do not trust my own writing enough to do this aesthetic justice.

I do also really like darker stuff. Like vampires and horror and just... you know those fighter things with guns and black/white colour schemes and rough make out sessions in alley ways and bathroom stalls.XD 

In fashion and interior design I’m a sucker for pastel colours and fairy lights. Vintage stuff is always nice. And books. Oh lord, what is a room without at least three book shelves.<3

Favourite Band: Don’t really have one. I listen to most things actually.

Fictional Character I’d Date: I don’t feel like I’d deserve any of them. Nobody would be able to put up with my shit in a romantic context, I swear to you. I am unbearable. 

Hogwarts House: Ravenclaw.:) I always was ravenclaw and I just... keep... getting ravenclaw. Whenever I get anything else on a quiz I laugh in its face because frankly... what else would I be? XDD

tagging: @skarphedinn @yelloweyedmagpie @amaranthor @staring-into-demon-eyes @kirakari

No pressure guys! Have fun!:’DD

[kelvintimeline]

@preussisch-blau-und-kadmium-auch

OP blocked me but you’re on a high enough horse that I wanna push you off.

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The split attraction model was invented in the last 5 years to imply that “sexual orientation” and “romantic orientations are two separate things. They are not. Sexual orientation BY DEFINITION is about non-platonic feelings in general which includes both romantic and sexual feelings. You can define non-platonic however you wish. It can be just sexual for you, just romantic, or, for most pole, it is a confusing blending of the two with a sprinkling of je ne sais quoi. Neurodivergent people especially struggle to separate the two and forcing them to define their sexual vs romantic feelings can be harmful. Especially for minors who don’t have the emotional maturity to parse between the two. They shouldn’t have to. They shouldn’t have to scrape parts of themselves out to plop into boxes so they can be taxonomized for shitty MOGAI politics.

The SAM is harmful, especially when it is normalized and applied to non-ace/aro people. There are over ONE THOUSAND stories about how the SAM and MOGAI attitudes let trans/LGBP people bury their internalized homophobia and dysphoria in labels like “homoromantic asexual” and shit like that. Here are the stories. It’s biphobic because there are are “orientations” like heterosexual homoromantic which is LITERALLY bisexual. Bisexuals can have preferences and experience sexual attraction to different genders differently!! All this does is erase nonbinary people.

Similarly, if the SAM is used regularly (which is what hte ace community is wanted), this is dangerous to survivors who often have complex feelings baout sexual romantic attraction. A cishet woman who was sexually assaulted by men might choose to identity as a lesbian later on, dating women. It is NO ONE’S business to ask her if she’s still sexually/romantically attracted to men. It’s no one business if she’s ~ACTUALLY a bisexual homoromantic. She’s a lesbian. That’s it. Because sexual orientations are about personal identity, who you want to be with, as well as attraction.

I can go ON and ON about what’s wrong with the SAM but here’s a few posts you should read. Here. Here. But like another basic point is--it relies on the term “homosexual” which is really fucking offensive.

You know what isn’t offensive? The term “SGA.” SGA is derived from the VERY common phrase “same gender attraction” which stems from the EVEN MORE COMMON phrase “attracted to the same gender.” Yes, “same sex attraction” has been used in conversion therapy. As has gay, lesbian, qu**r, insert slur, insert slur, insert slur here. That doesn’t mean it was derived from it. It has closer roots to the AAVE phrase “Same Gender Loving” but non-black people are being respectful by NOT using a term not made for them. SGA is more appropriate. Thanks.

Also, fuck you for saying NB people can’t be SGA. I’m a sapphic agender person, thanks. SGA doesn’t have to include all nonbinary people, just like lesbian and gay don’t have to include all of them. It’s still relevant to the point that LGBP people formed a bond over our SGA and the homophobia we suffered over it. Which transfered to a bond with trans folk because SGA and transness were seen as the same thing, historically. (Please look up “sexual inversion” if you do not believe me.)

Like, Katkee absolutely said I’m not actually bisexual. When she said cishet aces aren’t heterosexual, she is saying I am not bisexual. Because sometimes I’m completely ace. And I spent years without sexual attraction because I was so fucking depressed feelings like that were beyond my reach. Bisexuals are bisexual not because of who they want to fuck, which is a biphobic stereotype, but because of who we like and want to be with. GEnerally. Maybe that is sexual, maybe it’s not. It’s no one fucking business. Same for heterosexuals.

Like, no offense, but your comparison saying aromantic people can’t be bisexual is dumb as fuck. For the 18th time, sexual orientation is about sexual AND/OR romantic attraction. I’ll give you another comparison. A face generally is comprised of two eyes, a mouth, and a nose. Say someone is missing an eye, right? Maybe they’re born with just one eye, maybe they lost it. Whatever. Does tht mean that face isn’t a face because it’s missing one eye? No. It’s still a face. Just like you take the sexual attraction out of an orientation, it’s still an orientation. BUT if someone held an eyeball in front of you and said “this is a face,” you’d say “no dipshit, that’s just an eye.” Similarly, saying your reaction to JUST sexual attraction is a sexual orientation is ridiculous. No dipshit, that’s jus tsexual attraction.

“Aromantic” doesn’t mean “not attracted to any gender” it is is a way to describe your ROMANTIC attraction to people. It modifies your sexual orientation. “I am attracted to multiple genders but not romantically.” You are an aromantic bisexual. Because bisexuals are bisexuals no matter how they experience non-platonic attraction to multiple genders.

And, like, fuck your transphobia? Trans straight people can’t have straight privilege because people misgender them and see their m/f relationships as same gender relationships. They do not benefit from the systemic oppression of LGBP people because most laws/lack of protections for LGBP people hut them too. If a trans woman has not legally transitioned and is not recognized by the state as a woman, her marriage to her male partner is considered a same gender partnership and is not legal in most the world. She can still be the victim of homophobic hate crimes by people who still misgender her.

That is not true for cishet aces. Cishet aces can date, have sex, and marry whomever they like. Because a lot of cishet aces DO STILL HAVE SEX and have fetishes and libidos and kinks and whatever the fuck. How is that not “heteronormative?” And y’unno what? Who the fuck DOES perform straightness properly and gets rewarded for it? Cishet non-ace women are punished for too much sex, not enough sex, weird sex, prudish sex, or just prioritizing a career over sex and procreation. HELL a cishet non-ace man is demonized if his girlfriend whips on a strap on and helps him discovered prostate stimulation. Like?? They’re still cishet. They’re still privielged for it. Heteronormativity is about how you perform gender roles and in 2017 MOST relationships deviate from heteronormativity in some capacity. If two cishets are in a relationship and the woman has a career? That’s technically non-heteronormative. But she still isn’t LGBT.

And like?? Non-ace and non-aro people don’t all prioritize romantic and sexual relationships?? ALL the fucking time. Aces and aros aren’t special in that respect. Especially when we remember that: there are aces who have sex and aros who date. So like?? Whomp whomp, your cool kids table actually seats the entire fucking planet. Congrats.

Want another congratulations? Congrats on spreading misinformation because the APA never pathologized asexuality.

Like, seriously tho, what oppression do cishet aces and cishet aros face? Like, genuinely, tell me what aces and aros face NOT for a lack of sexual and/or romantic behaviour (which is not exclusive to aces/aros and is not true for all aces/aros) but for simply lacking that attraction??

And, again, please actually study LGBT history. Transgender bisexual women founded the LGBT community. As in women who were both LGBP AND trans. Because homophobia and transphobia are often perpetuated by the same institutions via the same laws, methodology, and cultural norms. Trans and LGBP folk chose to come together because we realized we were oppressed in the same ways or at least in very similar ways. Our bars, which we shared, were raided by the same police. AIDS killed trans women and gay men and bi men just the same. Sodomy laws affected us just the same. Lack of marriage equality affected us just the same. Gender norms went after us in similar ways. Gay was an umbrella term for ALL LGBT people people for a long time for a fucking reason.

And like... again, straight trans peopel cannot and do not oppress LGBP folk because they do not benefit from homophobic oppression. So maybe study up on that before you unleash your shitty opinions on me, okay?

BTW, most cishets don’t investigate whether you are romantically attracted to the person you’re banging or if you’re banging the person you’re dating. Like... they don’t care. Unless it’s their own relationship.

Also, as for the cat thing... I wasn’t talking about lynxes so uh?? What the fuck. I’m specifically talking about lynx point siamese cats. And how if I said a lynx point siamese wasn’t a cat, people would rightfully call me a moron.

Aaaand who the fuck do you hang out with where they assume you want to marry eveyrone you bang?? Please avoid those people, they’re creeps.

Yikes.

[no-u-it-me-red]

Hey uh, just so you know I had a minor gender crisis while trying to figure out my romantic orientation and I’m no longer a girl, nor am I a boy. I hadn’t realized that gender is something I’m supposed to feel. I thought it was ‘oh I’m a girl, that means absolutely nothing and will not use it as anything that will have an effect on my identity or mental feelings because you shouldn’t feel your gender’ and that should’ve been the first sign that something was up. So yeah, my pronouns are they/them now. Oh yeah, btw, I did end up finding out my romantic orientation. I’m Aromatic.